Gold diggers

Everybody wants a comfortable life style. But not everyone is prepared to work for it themselves.
Over the years in London I have seen girls exploit themselves through Kiss & Tell stories in newspapers hoping it will get them quick fame & money and just leaving them looking pathetic and desperate.
Not to mention the increase in seedy strippers & escorts who are proud of the "work" they are doing. There are also , of course, the whole WAG phenomenon, predicted almost entirely on a cynical pact between rich, bored, badly behaved men (a few come to mind) and the women who want to live off them.

Auditioning for Ashley Cole's next pile of sick.

The gaggle of wannabe WAGs hovering outside any nightclub frequented by Premiere League footballers is proof that there is an increasing number of women who believe that far from having their own life and their own job, the notion of being a human leech is to some degree a preferable career.

I do not know what these girls really think they will get out of it. Having been in the circle for many years I have seen what it brings, fights, harassment & humiliation. And for what- a man that they don't even know? I have overheard women in the toilets of the clubs saying that they don't care if he is married, as long as they just have him for one night with the risk of ruining his relationship. Really? Disgraceful. This breed of women shocks me and makes me lose faith in humanity.

The dream. Well it worked out alright for Cheryl didn't it. At least she had her own career to fall back on..erm..

Now of course I am not only blaming the women, the men in question are just as bad. I find men weak in general, so imagine a man who has had money too young, and has pretty women, who will do anything, throwing themselves at him. If women were not so quick on giving it up straight away, the men would not get the opportunity to behave so badly. However, looking at the Barcelona team for example, there are no such scandals surrounding them on the same level as with British football, what is it in Britain that makes the footballers behave so badly, the idolisation and acceptance of bad behaviour, the girls...? It's a complete different subject worth delving in to... but not now ;)

The usual suspects

I just wished footballers would stop being idolised just because they earn so much money, most of them are not even good human beings due to the situation they have been put in. What is there really to idolise? Since when did everything become all about money? This idolisation has definitely contributed to the view that women are for sale and men are to be used as human cash points. Just the example of Danielle Lloyd in 2009 when during a footballers party got thrown on a glass table by other competing girls and severely cut her legs, almost severing an artery. Seriously, what are girls not prepared to do for footballers.

All in the chase of that luxury life style.

When did it become acceptable to be a gold-digger?

After all, isn't a woman who sleeps with a man for money - or at least for extensive use of his credit card - called something else?

But then, 'prostitute' doesn't have quite the same glamorous, diamond-encrusted platinum ring to it, does it? Who needs sexual chemistry when you can have cold hard cash.

Just had to put that in there. It also works in reverse ;)

What happened to ambition and hard work and feeling that reward when you have accomplished something? I suppose society and media is to blame for this as everywhere you turn there is bling and stardom & people like Katie Price showing off their extravagant lifestyles. I understand pretty girls who have had the taste of not having to pay or work for things themselves, it puts you in a dangerous situation and if you are not smart enough to realise that beauty don't last forever and that replacement is easy you are up for disappointment.
  As evidence that bleeding a man dry has been on the up for a while, there are now even websites such as www.golddiggers.com, devoted to ways of hooking a rich guy.
Click on www.sugardaddyforme.com and the deal being struck is clear.
A glamorous looking young woman appears on the screen "Attractive, ambitious, insatiable" it reads. In other words she is offering sex on tap. When the picture of the tastefully greying man floats in to view, it says "Affluent, caring, generous". Yet we are not supposed to call these women prostitutes. That would be rude. But the line between the girl who asks for cash up front and the one who is taken to designer boutique to choose the latest handbag is surely now as thin as the strap on a La Perla bra.

True love. At last.

Again, it is worth saying that the men are not blameless in this unpleasant sex for designer clothes/jewellery/breast implant transaction. A man who buys a woman is no better than the woman who agrees to sell herself. It reduces human interaction to the level of a business deal.

The funny thing is, that in these days of equality, women no longer need to marry in to money- we can make our own. In a report published last month in Barclays Wealth Management, economists predicted that there will be more female millionaires in the UK than men by the year 2020, and less than 4 of these will have acquired their wealth through marrying a rich man. Yet, persistently, the ones we are really interested in are the ones who have married wealth.
Whole magazines are devoted to the antics of the WAGs and young girls are citing Coleen McLoughlin- who, after all, is only famous for being Wayne Rooneys doormat- as their role model.

Step 1. Hang outside Mayfair bar on a Saturday night .

Now, a girl doesn't always have to marry to get to the cash, luckily for the wannabe WAGs or general hungry gold diggers, they can always make sure they get pregnant by a footballer and in doing so getting a meal ticket for the next 18 years. Because lets face it these type of girls would never be considered for more than a dirty one-night stand anyway.
Wealthy men has for a long time been tricked into bed by single women who deliberately get pregnant because they view the baby as a career option. Soaring numbers of men are being forced to part with their money once they have been ensnared in this way by hungry females. They are seen as an easy prey by devious women who have no desire to work and equate a baby to a trophy and an "easy" life for the next 18 years. Poor babies.
Lawyer Diane Benussi runs a large matrimonial law firm specialising in high-value divorce cases and has seen a huge hike over the last few years in 'canny' women using the courts to gain financial support for 20 years or more. These predators- namely man-eating women intent on securing a cushy lifestyle- have been dubbed piranhas. It is a term that has been borrowed by Mrs Benussi  to describe women who flaunt themselves in the hope of snapping up a footballer or high-flying gentleman, whether he is married or not.

Mrs Benussi. Married to a billionaire.
Only joking.

Mrs Benussi continues saying "increasing numbers of women are shying away from work and marriage and looking instead for easy financial sources. Marriage doesn't seem to have the same resonance it once had. Instead women want a baby. Babies are becoming a lot more fashionable- they are becoming trophies. For some women it is a career move. They are paid to stay at home to look after their baby. It's a meal ticket for the next 18 years."  I am absolutely disgusted by this. Not only do I feel sorry for the babies having such greedy and heartless mothers, but also, in the cases that I know, the fathers don't want to have any contact with them or the children due to them having been tricked in to it before they were ready to start families.
How can you force fatherhood upon someone? Yes it takes two to tango but it should also take two to decide where and when that tango should finish, you can't force someone to carry on for 18 years.
That is just pure selfish, and for money? Pathetic.
Benussi carries on saying "Piranhas, which she described as 'flesh-eating, man-eating creatures' want a high-earning, high-flying, high-virility man. They can attack any time, whether it is in the work place, or at a bar or posh hotel (Mayfair Hotel springs to mind...) They know exactly where to find their target.

Have a baby by me baby be a millionaire...

The real victim of all this is as i previously stated, the babies. They are used and abused as weapons for these women to get money and the lifestyle they don't have the brain to achieve themselves.
And as much as I love my Louboutins and my Hermes bags, I would never ever lie and be deceiving to a person to get something so materialistic and shallow as a luxury lifestyle. Not everything has a price.

A favourite saying of mine springs to mind;
Some people are so poor that the only thing they have is money.